Relationships, and dates

You know, sometimes I feel really feel like a hypocrite. In particular, I give out lots of advice to people, and nearly all of it is about relationships. The thing is, I’ve never actually been able to say that “I have a girlfriend”. Even more so, I don’t think there’s really ever been a time when I’ve made it past being just friends with someone.

One thing that I like to think about to comfort myself in this area is, well, not everyone is in a relationship. The thing is, the people who are make it very obvious that they are, and the people who aren’t don’t really have a way or need to show it. So when you look around you’ll notice the people in a relationship easier than you would notice people who are not. That’s what it’s like for me anyways.

Now the problem is, people come to me for advice. Actually, problem isn’t the right word, because (a), I love to help people, and (b) I don’t mind at all (so don’t worry about asking, really). What MY problem is, is that I haven’t been through all the things that other people have, and yet I give out advice based on what I’ve seen, heard, and guessed. An example for you (directly at A, and you’ll know who you are), is that when I suggested that you just let it all out and tell them exactly how you were feeling, I only said that because I had tried it once, and it worked for that one person. But then after I was done talking with you, I realized that maybe that isn’t the way to go. Maybe it’s better to just say, “Hey, I really like you, would you like to go out?” But you see, with my limited experience in this area, and my seeming knowledge of the topic, you felt like I knew what I was talking about, and took my advice and ran with it. And so what if I’m wrong? What if girls hate it when a guy is completely open with them? What if they hate such blatant openness? Maybe they like it to seem casual yet heartfelt, so that at least one person can pretend to be comfortable with the situation. It’s just awful to think that you might have made a mistake that could turn out to really hurt a great friend of yours. So for both of our sakes, I hope she’s good with that method. (And a side note, I’m determined to respect you for your decision not to tell me who it is).

V, you’ve been the one who I’ve given the most advice to, and well, I’m pretty happy with that advice. I’m working on something to say to your depressed friend right now, because I know he needs something. I’ll be sending you an e-mail soon.

M, well, you’ve been a great inspiration to me. Thanks for the things we went through, it’s really defined who I am. I’m so lucky to have you (and everyone else here too BTW) as a friend.

One other reminder, I don’t share conversations. If you say something, it stays on my computer, but I won’t share (well, I might share what I wrote, but never anything you said). That’s just something that people shouldn’t have to worry about.

IHM, aka, A, well, I haven’t really talked to you in a long time. We should go caching sometime soon ok?

Now, as for dates:

A: Starbucks after Math

V: Starbucks, but when?

M: When can we go see National Treasure???

IHM: I just wish it would warm up L. When it does, I’ve got a few to place

C: (do you actually read this?) PICTURES! Just tell me when

Ummmmmm….

J?: We’re having lunch with the Frase on the 24^th, right? Yeah, see you then

Anyone else?

Well just remind me if I’ve forgotten something. I just might. Who knows.

Peace people.

Oh, wait

Ampersand Productions

It’s official!

There’s no website, my e-mail’s a dead end, but it’s official!

And one more note, if you have something to say to me, and time is of the essence, send me an e-mail. I check it at least 50 times a day, often more, and I don’t like having to go all the way to my facebook inbox or wall just to respond. E-mail’s the best for me. And texts? Let’s not even go there…

Ok, now it’s goodbye.

Done

Good night

Peace

(PS: This is post 75!!!)